{{dating}}You've
spent some time chatting online and now it's time to take the big leap and finally
meet in person. No matter how much time you spend getting ready for the big night,
its all about location, location, location. But where should you go? Here are
a few ideas for your first date.
Before deciding where to go on your first date,
you need to agree on what kind of date you're going on first. Many people are
more comfortable paying their own way or going Dutch on the first 'getting acquainted'
date. If you're going to go on a more traditional date with the man picking up
the tab, a moderately priced night out is appropriate.
There are several
other things to consider before your first date:
Mutual interest
- Don't waste your time planning an evening out without checking with your date
whether your choice is good for them.
Conversation or Entertainment
- Is it a time to talk or just a chance to spend some time with another person?
Food Preferences - Don't make the mistake and assume that what
you like to eat will be the same for your date. Be considerate and make your choice
known in advance.
Weather Outlook - The season of the year and
the weather directly impact your choice. Look ahead at the weather report and
alter your plans as needed. Be prepared!
We've included some ideas,
including several suggestions that are FREE. Use your imagination and personalize
the time so that you can make the most out of your first date.
Quiet
Places to Relax and Chat
Visit a local jazz or blues bar where you
can sit in a corner, undisturbed and get to know each other better.
A
trip to the zoo can be a great place to talk. If conversation gets strained--you
have the animals to talk about.
An art gallery or museum is another great
place to meander through and spark up intelligent conversation.
A dinner
date is often the typical first date. Just be sure you've agreed to particular
type of food ahead of time. And make reservations ahead of time, if you've decided
on an upscale establishment.
Outdoor activities such as a picnic, a walk
on the beach or ice skating on a pond offer cost effective ways to get to know
your date.
Places to Entertain Your Date
Going
to the movies or the theater offers a topic for conversation afterward, but be
careful when choosing the movie. Avoid anything sexually explicit or anything
traumatic or scary. Comedies are usually a safe bet and can help you relax.
Comedy
clubs can help break the ice by creating laughter and opening up your humorous
side during conversation.
Theme parks offer a multitude of things to
do. If you just want to enjoy being together, this is the place to go.
Check
out your local paper for events or attractions in your area that may be of interest.
Call in advance to make sure seats are available or order in advance.
Whatever
you decide, remember that your date is just as nervous as you are and looking
to have a good time. Relax and enjoy yourself! {{/dating}}
