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that the first date is out of the way - and possibly the second and third - where
can you take your date to keep their interest and to help you to grow and learn
even more about each other. Use a bit of imagination to bring some excitement
into the relationship. Here's a few ideas: |
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After the first sparks of a new relationship wear
off and you're running out of ideas to help keep things moving along, use your
imagination and remember: - Tastebud Treats
- Venture Out
- Pick
a Theme
- Learn Something
- Surprise!
Probably the easiest
ideas work around our tastebuds. You can get quite adventureous with gastronomical
cuisines. Try an ethnic restaurant, the rib joint downtown or the new cafe around
the corner. The key is to move out of your comfort zone and enjoy the experience
and each other's company. If funds are tight or you are tired of eating out, plan
a meal together - choose an exotic or romantic menu. Shop, prepare, enjoy the
food and great company together. Being adventurous doesn't mean you have to
take part in risky behavior like sky-diving. It's about doing something that is
out of the ordinary and finding excitement in the adventure. Take your date to
the opera or on a mystery dinner train; try a river cruise or go fishing. Check
out your local newspaper together ahead of time for events that are happening
nearby. Theme dates can be great fun! Combine dinner and a movie using a theme
like "Lost in the 50s Tonight" or "Ride 'em Cowboy". If you
live near an ethnic neighborhood, German, Italian, or China town; kick off your
theme in one of their great restaurants. Men would particularly enjoy a sports
theme like "Baseball Fever". A "Hawaiian Paradise" might tickle
her fancy. There are any number of imaginative ideas that you can do simply or
go extravagant. If you don't impress you're date, you'll at least be sure to have
a good time. Visiting a museum can be more than an educational experience.
It's a great way to get to know someone better, especially if you share a common
interest. Consider visiting an art, science or history museum. Take a mini course
of mutual interest like photography together at your local community college.
Almost everyone loves surprises - not the kind that make you jump out of your
skin - but unexpected, sweet gestures. Get tickets for a favorite rock band. Plan
a mystery night! Make the arrangements in advance and at the spur of the moment
call to meet at a particular location and take it from there.
To keep the sparks
flying and anticipation high, take the time to thoughtfully plan. No matter what
you choose to do, enjoy the company and keep it fun!
By Vanessa May
DateShowcase.com © 2007
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